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New site? Maybe some day. [Discussion][Everything Else]
| succubus -- 2003-12-02 22:16:23 -- i haven't commented on this photo yet..hmmm
and i will let it be my first comment on the "new" board ... wonder where you founf this...i don't think i ever asked |
09 Sat | Born Without Bones, Chousand, The Vaughns, Say What You Will |
The Beeracks, East Haven CT |
17 Fri | Sleep Cycles, Say What You Will, What Makes Sense, Arms Like Roses, Anthms |
The Beeracks, East Haven CT |
15 Sat | Shoreline Summer Fest! Carly Cosgrove, Mighty Tortuga, Mandala, Fred Mascherino, Shortwave, Say What You Will, Gvarden, Anthms, Point Radar, Ponce, Scooped Up, Snowpiler, Oceans in the Sky, Have Fun |
The Beeracks, East Haven CT |
05 Fri | Anthms (Album Release), Say What You Will, Return Address, 5ever, Cafe Pizzeria (name of the band) |
The Beeracks, East Haven CT |
08 Wed | Say What You Will / North By North / Zero Years / Wow Okay Cool |
Cafe Nine (New Haven, CT) |
01 Tue | give consideration to the '3
(the specific Frisky) First thing one morning I got a text from one of my friends, The kind I get nearly always: "Met my husband to be last night, My response was my the norm one: "Get back to me in weeks,
If I've learned one valuable thing from the dating whirligig I've been on going back six years (Give or take six months here or certainly there), It's that you must wait at least three months before looking towards the long term possibilities of a new person.
I don't need to sound cynical or jaded. I totally believe in love for myself and my girlftriend, But what I believe in more is that it takes a really long time to get to know someone and it's a complicated process. Whirlwind romances were very popular these days for me in 1997, But I'm older and wiser now. And not anymore wear red velvet leopard charmingdate.com print pants.
The first three months of knowing someone is a time of illusions. Instead of seeing the person objectively, You see them for who you would like them to be. Your object of desire is laden with fantasies and projections. I think it takes about three months to strip away the layers and start to see this person for who they are really.
I can't even count how frequent that I or a friend started dating someone and days or even weeks later found out there was something seriously messed up about him.
"oh yea, you haven't been in love and you're 35, "also, You just got out of a 10 year intimate last week, "goodness me, You don't ever desire children, "ohio, You're mentally volatile,
The more and less obvious developments about another are made in that three month period. That's stuff you should know before you move forward.
of course, I think three months gives you enough time to see if the new person in life is consistent. Do they call when they say they will? will they cancel dates? Do they even have plenty of time for dates? Do they want to hang out once a week or six times a week and does that mesh with what you're looking for? How can they treat you after a month? Any major arguments on fundamental things? How do they behave in numerous situations?
The being compatible check list is endless. You need those three months to gather the data you need to decide if you want this person in your life for the next three months.
each of our Frisky: 10 best tips for dating online
With all the disappointments that can come along with dating, I say why bother getting in a tizzy about someone who could be a Russian spy? rest room I always say to myself, To my friends, And for your requirements, personals, Check in after several weeks and tell me how great the new person you're dating is.
If everything is still coming up roses, Maybe I'll dance a jig on you. But it could take me six months to a year before I'm buying this "My husband to be" organization. |
Turkey |
20 Wed | William Elliott Whitmore, Frank Critelli |
BAR, 254 Crown Street, New Haven |
30 Mon | This Will Destroy You, 2 More TBA |
Lilly's Pad (Toad's Place Upstairs) (New Haven, CT) |
| This Will Destroy You (Magic Bullet),
Irepress, Constants, Wess Meets West |
Toad's Place (New Haven, CT) |
24 Sat | A Co-Headline show with... Kurt Vile (with band! matador records), Real Estate (hazy dream pop from nj), Sore Eros (experimental noise rock from enfield, ct), This show is now an UNOFFICIAL afterparty for the Interpol show downstairs at Toad's Place. Sore Eros will open the show at 10:30. If you decide to go to the Interpol show you should be able to catch some of Real Estate and all of Kurt Vile. |
Lilly's Pad (Toad's Place Upstairs) (New Haven, CT) |
22 Thu | [band=Obituary], [band=Dying_Fetus], [band=Origin], [band=Thy_Will_Be_Done] |
The Haven (Orlando, FL) |
| Dying Fetus, Sworn Enemy, Origin, Thy Will Be Done |
The Haven (Orlando, FL) |
23 Wed | CANCELLED: MOVED TO THE DOVER BRICKHOUSE: The Classic Struggle (Metal Blade), [band=the_world_we_knew], Salt The Wound, [band=mortis_deveia], and Only Blood will Tell, [band=deny_the_crown], Death Haven |
WELFARE RECORDS (HAVERHILL, MA) |
23 Sun | HATEBREED, Agnostic Front, God Forbid, Necro, At All Cost, Thy Will Be Done, Turmoil, Wrench In The Works, Living Hell, A Thousand Falling Skies, Crowns of Kings, Phantoms, Hostage Calm |
Toads Place (New Haven, CT) |
30 Sun | It Will End In Pure Horror - 12 noon - ALL AGES |
Fairhaven Varsity Club (Fairhaven, MA) |
06 Sun | Soulfly, Will Haven, Northside kings |
Lupos (Providence, RI) |
17 Mon | CANCELLED: Will Haven, Keepsake, Moment, On Broken Wings. 18+, $10, 7:30 |
Middle East (Cambridge, Ma) |
12 Wed | Will Haven, Keepsake, Emmanuel 7, the Distance |
EI n Gee (New London, CT) |
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